To give her an orgasm during sex you’ll need to use your penis to hit her g-spot. The feeling of being ‘filled up’ by your penis will feel amazing to her, but it isn’t always the best way to bring her to orgasm.
In fact, some women find it extremely difficult to orgasm during sex. This is why we’re going to cover the other ways you can do so below.
There is one position that rises above all others when it comes to making her cum during sex.
Have your woman lie on her back on the edge of the bed and rest her bum on a couple of pillows so that her bottom half is slightly higher than her top half.
Now, from a standing position enter her. Thrust in, but upwards at the same time. Because her spot is located on the top half of her vagina, it is easy to slide right past it with your penis.
With this angle (you coming from below and thrusting upwards – and her on her back with bum raised) you’ll be able to confidently hit her g-spot and bring her to climax.
Oh, on another point, we have a great article about how to have an orgasmic wife if you’re interested in helping your partner orgasm more easily.
Orgasms From Fingering
Fingering a girl to orgasm is a great way to get started, especially if you know you can’t last very long during penetrative sex. Fingering is also the best way to give her a squirting orgasm because you can use your fingers exactly the right way to hit her g-spot.
There are numerous different fingering techniques, but here is a basic rundown of what to do.
With her lying on her back, slip your two middle fingers inside of her and curl them slightly upwards.
With your two fingers curled upwards pointing towards her belly button, start to move your hand up and down. This allows you to hit the g-spot and you can also use the palm of your hand to rub against her clit.
Orgasms During Oral Sex
For some women, cunnilingus is one of the most effective ways to bring her to orgasm. There are a lot of different ways you can go about doing this, and they could involve:
- Blowing
- Kissing
- Sucking
- Biting
- Humming
While you should always play around with different techniques, the key to good oral sex is asking your partner what she likes.
Making Her Cum During Anal Sex
Anal sex orgasms are not only very different from normal orgasms but they can be very pleasurable for her to experience.
Some women don’t like the idea of doing anal though, so here’s a good way you can introduce the idea to them.
First off, when she gives you a blowjob, ask her to slip a finger into your bum, and feel free to use lube and a condom if necessary. This will feel great and show you’re not afraid of the bum area.
Next, you’ll want to start eating her pussy out. With her permission, slip a finger into her bum (use lube and a condom if necessary).
Now you have two fingers in her bum while you eat her out, it’s not a big jump to try with your penis. Women often find that the fingers in the bum are so enjoyable that they’ll agree to anal.
G-spot Orgasms
G-spot orgasms are the ‘bread and butter’ of female orgasms. This is where women are truly lucky to be women because they have that extra spot that allows them to have mind-blowing orgasms.
The g-spot is located inside the vagina. If you take two fingers, slip them slowly inside her and curl your two fingers upwards, deep inside her, you’ll be able to feel a small spongy spot.
When she is aroused this increases in size and volume making it slightly easier to find.
Later on in this article, you’ll learn how to give her multiple stacked and full-body orgasms using her G-spot.
Learn more about g-spot orgasms and making her squirt here.
Clitoral Orgasms
The clit and the g-spot can give women two completely different kinds of orgasms. The g-spot, as you’ve just learned, responds to direct stimulation from a finger or your penis.
The clit is located at the top part of the vagina and is often hidden away under a hood. During sexual arousal, it becomes engorged with blood and becomes more sensitive.
There are a number of ways you can stimulate the clit. The tongue is one of the best because it can make sensitive adjustments to the speed and power of the stimulation. The clit also responds incredibly well to vibrations, which is why most women use a vibrator pressed against the clit to orgasm.
You can stimulate her clit during sex, or whilst fingering her by using another finger. This works incredibly well to make her cum because you have the double stimulation on the g-spot and clit at the same time.
One neat little trick is to use a vibrator on her clit during sex – more about that later on in this article.
