There are just some things you don’t ask girls. How much she weighs, how old she is, and how many people she’s been with are at the top of that list.
The tricky thing with not knowing those things is they’re important and you may find yourself being driven crazy by not knowing. If you’re wondering how to tell if your girlfriend has slept with someone else, I’m here to help.
Does it matter how many people she’s slept with?
The number of people a person’s been with is usually something you want to know if you end up becoming serious with them. But does that number really matter in the big scheme of things?
The short answer: no.
Nevertheless, you still want to know. It’s natural to be curious about how many people someone you care about has been intimate with.
These are the best ways to find out if your girlfriend slept with someone else without having to ask her.
#1 She seems experienced. If your girlfriend has had s3x with someone before you, you’ll mostly be able to tell with the way she handles herself in the situation. Is she too nervous? Does she act like she doesn’t know what she’s doing?
If she seems experienced and like she knows what she’s doing, it’s probably because she does. However, this is something that can be faked, so don’t go on just this tip alone.
#2 She initiated the first time. Most girlfriends who’ve never had s3x before aren’t going to be the ones to initiate s3x the first time because it’s a much bigger deal to them. If your girlfriend initiated it the first time, she may have some experience under her belt.
#3 She initiates new positions. Newbies in the bedroom aren’t really going to know what positions are the best and what feels good. She’s more than likely just going to let you do your thing and move to where you want her to.
But if she’s had s3x with someone else before you, she’ll initiate different positions based on what she knows feels best for her. Because she’s slept with someone else and knows.
#4 She talks dirty. Dirty talk is not for the girls who haven’t had s3x before. The only time girls talk dirty and make it sound good and not awkward is if they’ve practiced and honed their skill.
