Wow. There are actually women out there who like to be touched by their husbands?
My wife only wanted her breasts touched when she i really hot during sex (which was very rarely).
If I tried to touch them even just playing around, she would smack me, no lie.
While it’s not the only reason by any means, our marriage is now sterile and loveless because she acted disinterested in anything intimate.
Big or small, it doesn’t matter.
They are beautiful. It wasn’t you, northernlights. He contributed to your self-esteem by not showing you how wonderful they are. Don’t know if it was intentional or if that’s just the way he is about boobs.
There is some seriousness to this. Don’t take this as gospel, but understand that men love them.
Hopefully it will make you smile, too.
Holland said:
All the time here but I like it. He does control himself in public though.
If he hasn’t had a good feel for too long then I put them in his face.
northernlights said:
Never. He’ll touch them sometimes when we have sex, but other than that, never. I have small boobs, so it used to make me even more self conscious about them. Then when I was nursing they got huge and he STILL ignored them (or outright told me to cover them up when I flashed him), but at least I didn’t feel like it was just because my breasts were inadequate any more.
You don’t have a problem, it is your husband.
Mrs. Conan is a tiny woman everywhere. There has never been one part of “my little unit” that has been safe from my hungry hands.
She recently got a boob job, for her own reasons I was absolutely satisfied with her body, and I actually had to retrain myself to pay attention to them.
A woman’s body should be affectionately groped by her husband and vice versa, often!
Like many of the women on this thread, my STBW loves the consistant attention I give her boobs, and like many of the men, I love giving it.
Getting a feel every chance I get. The “accidental” arm brush out in public, though she knows exactly what I’m doing, and always smiles, and often will push her breasts into my back or chest in a hug with that same gorgeous smile.
When we are spooning in bed, she will usually put my hand right on her breast for me.
It does seem like breast touching for women is kind of a barometer for the rest of the relationship, much like sex.
Body issues aside, if the woman is in a good place in the relationship, she loves it, encourages it, participates in it, but if there are problems, the exact same touches are annoying, bothersome, even creepy.
“Let’s never stop having sex. We’re so good at it, we OWE it to sex to never stop having it.”
